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		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2009 11:54:45 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Gail Jones</div>
<p>Dating advice is abundant: it&#8217;s on the Internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on the TV. Dating advice is so easy to give that an eight-year-old even wrote a book about it. (That child is intelligent and ought to be sought after by the girls, because while fundamental, all of his dating advice is true. If you have read the book, you would be forced to admit that that eight-year-old child does know what he is proposing (no pun intended): that is to keep everything straightforward. And that it in a nutshell when it comes to dating, keep things simple.</p>
<p>Leave your past behind you. It&#8217;ll only get you bogged down. The first thing any dating-counsellor would advise you is that a fresh start is important for a date to go well. Talking to your date about how your ex mistreated you is definitely not the way forward. Sometimes it isn&#8217;t even necessary to talk, and a person who has been hurt once may be over suspicious of any new relationship and this could show in their attitude toward their date.</p>
<p>&#8216;Just be yourself&#8217; is probably the best dating advice possible. Sure, people like to show themselves in the best possible light and impress their date, but if they are not behaving their usual selves, not only will they feel uneasy, but their date will pick up on the uneasiness too.</p>
<p>Not to expect too much (nor too little) is also good dating advice. If you expect too much from one date or from te person you are dating, it is highly likely that you will be discouraged by the results. After all, your date is only human too and first dates are generally at least slightly awkward.</p>
<p>One of the most frequently asked questions is: who foots the bill? The consensus in dating advice is that he/she who suggested the date pays. However, other people declare that it&#8217;s better to go Dutch every time and avoid hassles. There is yet another school of thought on dating advice that suggests that the man is not a &#8220;gentleman&#8221; if he doesn&#8217;t pick up the tab. In the case of a difference of policy between you and your date, come to a compromise that is mutually acceptable.</p>
<p>Maybe texting your date before your meeting is also a sound idea as it puts him or her at their ease and allows you to discuss interests or hobbies informally &#8211; in a less tense environment than a first date would be. This can help you choose a setting for the date that you would both enjoy.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, just bear in mind that, no matter how much dating advice you have under your belt, eventually, it is all up to you. No date is the last date, so if one doesn&#8217;t work out, don&#8217;t worry, there can be another one and if it still doesn&#8217;t work, there are always other people to meet.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Apr 2009 09:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gail Jones</dc:creator>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Gail Jones</div>
<p>Dating advice is abundant: it&#8217;s on the Internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on the TV. Dating advice is so easy to give that an eight-year-old even wrote a book about it. (That child is intelligent and ought to be sought after by the girls, because while fundamental, all of his dating advice is true. If you have read the book, you would be forced to admit that that eight-year-old child does know what he is proposing (no pun intended): that is to keep everything straightforward. And that it in a nutshell when it comes to dating, keep things simple.</p>
<p>Leave your past in the past. There&#8217;s a reason it&#8217;s called the past. The first thing any giver of dating advice would tell you is that a fresh start is important for a date to go well. Boring your date with tales of the ex&#8217;s misdeeds is a definite no-no. Don&#8217;t let old grudges get in the way of new opportunities.</p>
<p>&#8216;Just be yourself&#8217; is probably the best dating advice possible. Sure, people like to show themselves in the best possible light and impress their date, but if they are not behaving their usual selves, not only will they feel uneasy, but their date will pick up on the uneasiness too.</p>
<p>Not to expect too much (nor too little) is also good dating advice. If you expect too much from one date or from te person you are dating, it is highly likely that you will be discouraged by the results. After all, your date is only human too and first dates are generally at least slightly awkward.</p>
<p>A frequently asked question is who pays? The consensus in dating advice is that he who invites, pays. However, some people insist that it is better to go Dutch every time and avoid complications. There is another school of dating advice though, that insists that the man pays for every date. In the case of a difference of opinion between you and your date, come to a compromise that works for both of you.</p>
<p>Texting your date before meeting is also a good idea as it puts him or her at ease and allows you to discuss interests and hobbies in an informal and less tense environment than a first date would be. This gives you something to work with if conversation lags.</p>
<p>The most important bit of dating advice though, is to remember that no one date is a deal-breaker. No date is the end, so if one doesn&#8217;t work out, why worry, there will be others. And if they doesn&#8217;t work, there are plenty of other people to go out with.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 11 Apr 2009 16:12:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Gail Jones</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dating advice is abundant on the Internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on TV. There was even an eight year old kid who wrote a book filled with sound dating advice. (That kid really is pretty clever and must be pretty popular with the girls, because although fairly basic, all of his dating advice is good sense. &#124;If you read the book, you will be forced to agree that that eight-year-old kid does know what he's on about and that he keeps it simple. And that is the point really: when it comes to dating, keep things simple.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Gail Jones</div>
<p>Dating advice is abundant on the Internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on TV. There was even an eight year old kid who wrote a book filled with sound dating advice. (That kid really is pretty clever and must be pretty popular with the girls, because although fairly basic, all of his dating advice is good sense. |If you read the book, you will be forced to agree that that eight-year-old kid does know what he&#8217;s on about and that he keeps it simple. And that is the point really: when it comes to dating, keep things simple.</p>
<p>Leave your past in the past. It only holds you back. Anyone you get dating advice from will tell you that to have even one successful date, you need to dump all your baggage and start afresh. Do not ruin your chances by boring your new date with stories of your  ex&#8217;s crimes against you. It is a just not on. Do not let old grievances spoil new chances.</p>
<p>&#8216;Be yourself&#8217; is probably the best dating advice possible. It&#8217;s true that people like to put their best foot forward, and impress their date, but if they aren&#8217;t their usual selves, not only will they feel uncomfortable, but their date will pick up on the uneasy vibes as well.</p>
<p>Not to expect too much (nor too little) is also good dating advice. If you expect too much from one date or from te person you are dating, it is highly likely that you will be discouraged by the results. After all, your date is only human too and first dates are generally at least slightly awkward.</p>
<p>A question that crops up time and time again is: who should pay? The general consensus of opinion in dating advice circles is that the one who invites, pays. But, others argue  that it is always better to go 50/50 every time to avoid embarrassment. Furthermore,  there is yet another school of dating advise though, that reasons that a man is not a gentleman&#8221; if he doesn&#8217;t offer to pick up the bill. The best thing to do in this scenario  would be to settle for something that you and your date are both comfortable with.</p>
<p>Texting your date before meeting is also a good idea as it puts him or her at ease and allows you to discuss interests and hobbies in an informal and less tense environment than a first date would be. This gives you something to work with if conversation lags.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, just bear in mind that, no matter how much dating advice you have under your belt, eventually, it is all up to you. No date is the last date, so if one doesn&#8217;t work out, don&#8217;t worry, there can be another one and if it still doesn&#8217;t work, there are always other people to meet.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div style='font-style:italic;' class='byline'>by Gail Jones</div>
<p>Dating advice is abundant on the Internet, in magazines, books, newspapers and on TV. There was even an eight year old kid who wrote a book filled with sound dating advice. (That kid really is pretty clever and must be pretty popular with the girls, because although fairly basic, all of his dating advice is good sense. |If you read the book, you will be forced to agree that that eight-year-old kid does know what he&#8217;s on about and that he keeps it simple. And that is the point really: when it comes to dating, keep things simple.</p>
<p>Leave your past in the past. There&#8217;s a reason it&#8217;s called the past. The first thing any giver of dating advice would tell you is that a fresh start is important for a date to go well. Boring your date with tales of the ex&#8217;s misdeeds is a definite no-no. Don&#8217;t let old grudges get in the way of new opportunities.</p>
<p>&#8216;Do as you normally do &#8211; just be yourself&#8217; is surely the best dating advice there is. Without dobt, people like to excel, to shine and impress their date, but faking it will only make both you and your date feel uncomfortable.</p>
<p>Tempering your expectations to be neither too high nor too low is also very good dating advice. Expecting too much out of just one date or of the person you are dating, is bound to end up disappointing you (both). Let&#8217;s face it, your date is only human and so are you; and first dates are notoriously a bit awkward.</p>
<p>One of the most frequently asked questions is: who foots the bill? The consensus in dating advice is that he/she who suggested the date pays. However, other people declare that it&#8217;s better to go Dutch every time and avoid hassles. There is yet another school of thought on dating advice that suggests that the man is not a &#8220;gentleman&#8221; if he doesn&#8217;t pick up the tab. In the case of a difference of policy between you and your date, come to a compromise that is mutually acceptable.</p>
<p>Maybe texting your date before your meeting is also a sound idea as it puts him or her at their ease and allows you to discuss interests or hobbies informally &#8211; in a less tense environment than a first date would be. This can help you choose a setting for the date that you would both enjoy.</p>
<p>The most important bit of dating advice though, is to remember that no one date is a deal-breaker. No date is the end, so if one doesn&#8217;t work out, why worry, there will be others. And if they doesn&#8217;t work, there are plenty of other people to go out with.</p>
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